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Written By Calm Editorial Team
Clinically reviewed by Dr. Chris Mosunic, PhD, RD, CDCES, MBA
Words of affirmation or physical touch? Learn what the 5 love languages are and how to identify your love language to strengthen your relationships and wellbeing.
There are times in relationships when misunderstanding each other’s expressions of love can create distance. For instance, one partner expresses love through cooking and cleaning, while their partner feels loved when they watch TV together. Both partners in this scenario will probably end up feeling unappreciated, frustrated, and unloved.
But in a world where relationships are the most important ingredient for long-term happiness, the way we navigate our relationships becomes more and more important. That’s where love languages come in.
What are the 5 love languages?
Navigating the world of love and relationships can sometimes feel like decoding a puzzle—after all, everyone has a unique way of expressing and receiving love. These things are often culturally ingrained and depend on our life experiences, gender, age, and values.
That said, Dr. Chapman found five overarching love languages. You may find that you relate to several. Still, there’s usually one that will particularly resonate with you.
1. Words of affirmation
This love language revolves around vocal affirmations of feelings like love, appreciation, and support. Compliments, encouragement, or a simple "I love you" can be deeply meaningful.
How to practice: Words of affirmation are pretty straightforward but can be some of the hardest words to say for those not used to them. Some examples to start with include saying, "You mean the world to me," or "I'm proud of you." These words can have a big impact on anyone who’s been struggling with low self-esteem, or negative self-talk.
💙 If you or someone you love considers words of affirmation as a love language, it can be impactful to practice affirmations in your mindfulness practices. Check out Self-Affirmations from the Daily Jay.
2. Acts of service
This love language translates affection into actions. Usually, actions that seek to make the other’s life easier or better. Whether cooking a 3-course meal or ensuring you take your pills on time, these acts are their way of saying, "I care."
How to practice: Acts of service could include making breakfast in bed for a loved one or taking over chores when a partner feels overwhelmed.
3. Receiving gifts
For some, love is best expressed through giving and receiving gifts. It's not about materialism but the thought and effort behind the gift.
How to practice: Whether it's a handwritten note or a truly personal gift, these tokens of affection can speak volumes.
💙 If acts of service and/or gifts are your love languages, it might be important to develop a gratitude practice where you get into the habit of expressing thanks to your loved ones who offer you these gifts. Explore our Gratitude masterclass.
4. Quality time
This love language is all about undivided attention and communication. No distractions, just pure, uninterrupted time together.
How to practice: Activities like taking a ‘Talk It Out’ walk together or making time for date night can mean so much if you or your loved one’s love language is quality time.
💙 Walking is a wonderful way to incorporate mindfulness and movement into your daily routine. It’s also a great time to spend quality time with someone you care about. To learn more about Mindful Walking, check out our guided practice.
5. Physical touch
People with this love language often feel most loved and connected when in physical contact with others. How much physical touch is needed depends on the person.
How to practice: From a comforting pat on the back to cuddling on the couch, these physical signs of affection convey deep love and intimacy.
💙 Sometimes physical touch can manifest as relaxing on the couch in close proximity to a loved one. Why not pair this special time with some soothing music like Restorative Piano 432 hz.
The beauty of love languages lies in recognizing our language and those of our loved ones, which creates understanding and the feeling of belonging in our relationships. It’s important to note, however, that these are generalizations, and each person will have their own unique take. For example, someone who values acts of service won’t necessarily appreciate chores.
The best way to find out how someone feels loved is to ask them, and love languages are a great way to get the conversation started.
What are love languages?
You may have heard the term love languages before but if you’re not aware where it comes from, ‘Love languages’ is a term coined by Gary Chapman, Ph.D, in his book The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts.
These love languages aren’t just about romantic relationships—they’re about the ways we connect in all relationships including friendships, family ties, and even the relationship we have with ourselves.
Our love languages play a pivotal role in how we each express and receive affection and vary from one person to another. Recognizing and appreciating our preferred love languages as well as the preferred languages of others ensures our expressions of love hit the mark, creating connections that are more likely to stand the test of time.
💙 Learn more about how to nourish your relationship with our Love and Relationships series.
When we’re aware of when and how we feel cherished, we can also show ourselves the love we need. Like arranging to meet up with friends regularly because you know quality time is important to you. When our emotional needs are met, we see and feel the benefits to our mental health.
Why love languages matter for your wellbeing
We’ve probably all experienced gestures of love, big or small, that made our hearts swell. Subtle or grand, these moments play a pivotal role in human relationships. Whether a comforting handhold or a timely message of encouragement, expressing and receiving affection is central to our emotional wellbeing.
Emotional intimacy: Intimacy isn't just for romantic couples, it's essential in all our relationships. It's that deep sense of being understood by another person—and understanding them in return. When we communicate our affection well, we strengthen this bond, making our ties more resilient.
Affection and mental health: Affectionate gestures can uplift our mood and mental wellbeing. Studies have shown that feeling appreciated can reduce loneliness and increase self-worth and emotional security.
Building trust through affection: Trust doesn't happen overnight. Affectionate gestures add to the faith felt in a relationship, cultivating a sense of safety and reliability.
Relationship satisfaction: Relationships require consistent nurturing. By actively expressing and receiving affection, we keep our relationships nourishing and healthy so both parties feel valued.
How to identify your love language
Finding your primary love language can help you improve your relationships and boost your wellbeing. Here are 5 steps to helping you identify your love language.
Step 1: Reflect on your relationships
Take a moment to think back on past or current close relationships. What gestures or actions made you feel the most adored? Was it an unexpected love note or the time a friend spent just listening? Recognizing these patterns can offer a significant clue to your love language.
Step 2: Observe your actions and reactions
Turn the spotlight on yourself. How do you typically show love? Do you express your feelings through words, or are you the first to roll up your sleeves and help out? Also, think about the times you felt hurt or disappointed—was it when kind words were scarce or when you felt starved of time together? Your reactions can give an insight into what you value most.
Step 3: Seek feedback
Ask close friends or your partner how they think you receive love best. Often, those close to us notice patterns and behaviors we might overlook.
Step 4: Take a love language quiz
Sometimes, a little external perspective can help. Try taking Dr Chapman’s online quiz to help you identify your love language.
Step 5: Reflect on your findings
With all this information, sit back and reflect. Does a particular love language feel more important than the others? Remember, relating to multiple languages is okay—our emotions can be complex.
Understanding your love language can help you achieve deeper, more meaningful connections with loved ones.
💙 The five love languages aren’t the only tools you can use to better understand and prioritize your connections with your loved ones. Explore our Relationship with Others series to dive deeper.
What are the 5 love languages FAQs
What are the 5 love languages and how do I find mine?
If you aren’t sure what your love language is or you want to find your partner’s preferences, check out our article, How to find your love language.
The five love languages:
Physical touch: Learn how physical affection can strengthen your relationship.
Words of affirmation: Learn how verbal expressions of love can solidify your bond.
Acts of service: Discover how doing things for your partner can show you care.
Receiving gifts: Understand how thoughtful gifts can make your partner feel cherished.
Quality time: Find out how spending mindful time together can deepen your connection.
Is it 5 or 7 love languages?
Dr. Gary Chapman, who developed the theory, identified 5 distinct ways we express and experience love. While people might feel loved in other ways, these five are the most universally recognized.
How do I know what my love language is?
Reflect on past relationships and how you felt most loved or appreciated. You can also think about how you typically show affection. Discuss it with close friends or your partner, too. For a more structured approach, try the online quiz designed by Dr. Gary Chapman. Remember, there's no right or wrong answer. It's all about better understanding yourself and your needs.
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`; // Replace with actual HTML content // Function to append HTML and add close functionality function appendHtmlAndAddCloseFunctionality(htmlSnippet, targetClass) { var targetElement = document.querySelector(targetClass); if (targetElement) { targetElement.insertAdjacentHTML('beforebegin', htmlSnippet); var closeButton = targetElement.previousElementSibling.querySelector('.quiz-close'); if (closeButton) { closeButton.addEventListener('click', function(event) { event.preventDefault(); targetElement.previousElementSibling.remove(); }); } } } // Append snippet 1 if (allowedUrlsSnippet1.includes(currentPath)) { appendHtmlAndAddCloseFunctionality(snippetHTML1, '.content'); } else if (allowedUrlsSnippet2.includes(currentPath)) { appendHtmlAndAddCloseFunctionality(snippetHTML2, '.content'); } else if (allowedUrlsSnippet3.includes(currentPath)) { appendHtmlAndAddCloseFunctionality(snippetHTML3, '.content'); } else if (currentPath.includes('journey-redirect')) { let meta = document.createElement('meta') meta.name = 'robots' meta.content = 'noindex' document.head.appendChild(meta) } else { appendHtmlAndAddCloseFunctionality(snippetHTML2, '.content') } // Quiz Flow Tracking Code // Function to extract a specific part of the URL slug function getSlugPart() { var path = window.location.pathname; // Get the pathname of the URL var slug = path.split('/').pop(); // Split the pathname by '/' and get the last part return slug || 'Unknown'; // Return the slug part or 'Unknown' if it's not available } // Function to set UTM parameters on elements with the class 'quiz-link' function setUTMParameters() { var slugPart = getSlugPart(); // Get the specific part of the slug var quizLinks = document.querySelectorAll('.quiz-link'); // Select all elements with the class 'quiz-link' quizLinks.forEach(function(link) { var originalUrl = link.href; var utmParameters = `utm_source=blog&utm_campaign=${encodeURIComponent(slugPart)}&utm_medium=organic`; // UTM parameters with the slug part var separator = originalUrl.includes('?') ? '&' : '?'; // Determine if we need to start with '?' or append with '&' link.href = `${originalUrl}${separator}${utmParameters}`; // Append UTM parameters to the URL }); } setUTMParameters(); // Execute the function when the page loads // Continue reading let cutoffBtn const eventProperties = { page_name: currentPath, calm_user_id: null } const allowedUrls = [] if (allowedUrls.includes(currentPath)) { // Article cutoff const contentWrapperRow = document.querySelector('.blog-item-content .sqs-row'); const contentWrapperCol = contentWrapperRow.querySelector('.sqs-col-12'); const cutoffBtnHtml = `
` if (contentWrapperRow && contentWrapperCol) { contentWrapperCol.classList.add('cutoff') contentWrapperRow.insertAdjacentHTML('beforeend', cutoffBtnHtml); cutoffBtn = contentWrapperRow.querySelector('.cutoff__btn__btn'); cutoffBtn.addEventListener('click', () => { contentWrapperCol.classList.remove('cutoff') cutoffBtn.parentElement.remove() if (typeof amplitude != 'undefined') { amplitude.track('Blog : Continue Reading : Clicked', eventProperties); } }) } } // Paragraphs seen, continue reading button seen const paras = document.querySelectorAll('.blog-item-content p'); const pFirst = paras[0] const pMiddle = paras[Math.round(paras.length / 2)] const pLast = paras[paras.length - 2] const eventStops = { first: false, middle: false, last: false, cutoff: false } function throttle(fn, wait) { var time = Date.now(); return function() { if ((time + wait - Date.now()) < 0) { fn(); time = Date.now(); } } } function isInViewport(element, eventKey) { if (element) { var bounding = element.getBoundingClientRect(); if ( bounding.top >= 0 && bounding.left >= 0 && bounding.right <= (window.innerWidth || document.documentElement.clientWidth) && bounding.bottom <= (window.innerHeight || document.documentElement.clientHeight) && !eventStops[eventKey] ) { eventStops[eventKey] = true return true; } } } const sendEvents = order => { if (order === 'cutoff') { dataLayer.push({'event': 'continue_reading_seen'}) if (typeof amplitude != 'undefined') amplitude.track('Blog : Continue Reading : Seen', eventProperties); } else { dataLayer.push({'event': `${order}_paragraph`}) if (typeof amplitude != 'undefined') amplitude.track(`Blog : Article Scroll : ${capitalizeFirstLetter(order)} Paragraph`, eventProperties); } } const checkParaSendEvent = () => { if (isInViewport(pFirst, 'first')) sendEvents('first'); if (isInViewport(pMiddle, 'middle')) sendEvents('middle'); if (isInViewport(pLast, 'last')) sendEvents('last'); if (isInViewport(cutoffBtn, 'cutoff')) sendEvents('cutoff') } const capitalizeFirstLetter = (string) => { return string.charAt(0).toUpperCase() + string.slice(1); } window.addEventListener('scroll', throttle(checkParaSendEvent, 150)) // Topic Targeted App Audio Track CTAs const ctaToReplace = document.querySelectorAll('img[src*="try-calm-for-free.png"]')[0] const appAudioData = [ { title: 'sleep_quality', html: `
5 tools you need to sleep better tonight
- Improve your sleep with these science-backed tips
- From neuroscientist and sleep expert, Dr. Matthew Walker
- Bite-sized audio lessons for long-term results
Sleep Better
Easy Tips for Better Sleep
Dr. Mathew Walker Neuroscientist and Sleep Expert- Don't Try, and Don't Worry! 4 min
- Your Sleep Type 5 min
- Sleep and Your Mood 4 min
- Your Sleep Environment 4 min
- Sleeping with Your Phone 4 min
Sleep Better
`, urls: ['/blog/vivid-dreams','/blog/how-to-prevent-nightmares','/blog/why-dont-i-remember-my-dreams','/blog/stress-dreams','/blog/waking-up-tired','/blog/how-to-get-more-deep-sleep','/blog/how-to-get-over-jet-lag','/blog/sleep-anxiety','/blog/screen-time-before-bed'] }, { title: 'grounding', html: `
Get grounded in three minutes
- Calm your body and mind using your breath
- From former monk and bestselling author, Jay Shetty
- Short audio practice to help you find balance
Calm Your Mind
Calm Your Mind
`, urls: ['/blog/5-4-3-2-1-a-simple-exercise-to-calm-the-mind','/blog/how-to-stop-intrusive-thoughts','/blog/box-breathing','/blog/driving-anxiety','/blog/grounding-techniques','/blog/how-to-stop-overthinking'] }, { title: 'fall_asleep', html: `
Ready to fall asleep with ease tonight?
- Quiet your mind and body using this guided exercise
- From mindfulness specialist Chibs Okereke
- Soothing audio session to unwind into sleep
Get To Sleep
Get To Sleep
`, urls: ['/blog/racing-thoughts-at-night','/blog/why-do-i-keep-waking-up-at-3am','/blog/breathing-exercises-for-sleep'] }, { title: 'work_stress', html: `
How to beat work stress & burnout like a boss
- Relieve stress and anxiety quickly during the workday
- From stress and burnout specialist, Chibs Okereke
- Short exercises to help you find your calm
Take a Break
Quick Breaks
Chibs Okereke Mindfulness Instructor- Managing Overwhelm 5 min
- 60 Second Reboot 1 min
- Step Away From the Computer 4 min
- Let's Unplug 4 min
Take a Break
`, urls: ['/blog/how-to-recover-from-burnout','/blog/beat-burnout','/blog/sunday-scaries'] }, { title: 'sleep_sounds', html: `
The music you need for better sleep
- Get more restful sleep with delta wave music
- Produced with Binaural Beats, scientifically shown to enhance sleep
- 8 hours of music for deep sleep
Get Deep Sleep
Delta Waves for Deep Sleep
Curated by experts at Calm- Halting Thoughts (Delta 145 Hz - 147 Hz) 60 min
- Slow Release (Delta Binaural) 60 min
- Careful Mind (Delta 83 Hz - 84 Hz) 60 min
- Calm Body (Delta Binaural) 59 min
Get Deep Sleep
`, urls: ['/blog/what-is-green-noise','/blog/sounds-to-help-you-sleep','/blog/best-music-to-fall-asleep-to'] }, { title: 'anxiety', html: `
The 11 anti-anxiety tools you need in your life
- Relieve anxiety with these game-changing tools
- From clinical psychologist & online educator, Dr. Julie Smith
- Bite-sized audio sessions for long-term relief
Overcome Anxiety
Overcome Stress and Anxiety
Dr. Julie Smith Clinical Psychologist and Educator- Calm Your Heart with Deeper Breaths 3 min
- Challenge Your Negative Thoughts 4 min
- Guided Breathing to Release Tension 10 min
- Distance Yourself From Anxious Thoughts 5 min
- Create Emotional Safety 4 min
Overcome Anxiety
`, urls: ['/blog/panic-attack-vs-anxiety-attack','/blog/how-to-calm-anxiety-attack','/blog/breathing-exercises-for-anxiety','/blog/feeling-anxious-for-no-reason','/blog/flight-anxiety-tips','/blog/affirmations-for-anxiety'] }, { title: 'relationships', html: `
How to cultivate happier and healthier relationships
- Strengthen your connections (even during conflict)
- From the Head of Mindfulness at Calm
- 12 audio sessions to create lasting change
Improve Your Relationships
Relationships with Others Series
Tamara Levitt Head of Mindfulness at Calm- Nurturing Relationships 10 min
- Holding Space 10 min
- Listening 10 min
- Boundaries 10 min
- Empathy 10 min
Improve Your Relationships
`, urls: ['/blog/how-to-overcome-social-anxiety','/blog/questions-to-ask-to-get-to-know-someone','/blog/taking-a-break-in-a-relationship','/blog/anxiety-in-relationships','/blog/long-distance-relationship','/blog/emotional-connection','/blog/first-date-nerves'] } ] appAudioData.forEach(instance => { if (instance.urls.includes(currentPath) && ctaToReplace) { const ctaToReplaceWrapper = ctaToReplace.closest('.sqs-row') if (ctaToReplaceWrapper) { ctaToReplaceWrapper.insertAdjacentHTML('beforebegin', instance.html) ctaToReplaceWrapper.remove() } return } })}); // Audio Sample Functionality Codewindow.onload = function() { // Replace 'audioFileURL' with the direct link to your audio file const audioFileURL = 'https://static1.squarespace.com/static/57b5ef68c534a5cc06edc769/t/65a78d86aa34af6af3428203/1705479566073/SLEP_0184_DreamWithMe_EN_2CH_MK_20230802_HomepageCutdown.mp3/original/SLEP_0184_DreamWithMe_EN_2CH_MK_20230802_HomepageCutdown.mp3'; // Getting the play/pause button by its ID and icons by their IDs const playPauseButton = document.getElementById('harry-styles-sleep-story-play-pause-button'); const playIcon = document.getElementById('harry-styles-sleep-story-play-icon'); const pauseIcon = document.getElementById('harry-styles-sleep-story-pause-icon'); // Check if elements exist if (playPauseButton && playIcon && pauseIcon) { // Initially hide the pause icon pauseIcon.style.display = 'none'; // Creating the audio object const audio = new Audio(audioFileURL); // Event listener for play/pause button playPauseButton.addEventListener('click', function() { if (audio.paused) { audio.play(); playIcon.style.display = 'none'; pauseIcon.style.display = 'block'; } else { audio.pause(); playIcon.style.display = 'block'; pauseIcon.style.display = 'none'; } }); // Dispatch the custom event after the player is ready let e = new Event("amplitudeaudioloaded"); document.dispatchEvent(e); }};